yowch said:Democracy is follow the will of the majority. If you are the only sane person in a country of maniacs, and you are the only righteous person in a country of criminals, then you are minority. Democracy allows you the free will to see what the majority is doing to the country. Democracy allows the immoral to remain immoral if he can find enough supporters. Sure you can choose, but you must also respect others' choice, especially the majority.
Which is why many will agree with student's statement that democracy allows for a lot of nonsense. The is no moral in a true democracy, there is only the view of the majority.
That is why we there is a need to elect a few representative 'thinkers' and 'leaders' to guide the majority into the right path, whatever that right path may be. The government is suppose to fill this role.
dawgbyte77 said:I assume these were meant as a joke right? Because charity and trade are very different and what you've just mentioned is trade. If I'm not wrong, charity is giving without expecting anything in return. Even recognition is optional.
student said:Ahem!
Call me dumb! Call me ANYTHING!
But I just do not understand the stand by people like Adam Goi and Nisa. Somepeole have money to throw. Others want theirs to be used well.
I am not questioning their motives, which are highly commendable.
I just do not understand how their logic work. Or maybe I do.
I am not emotionally attached to NKF or good cause they are doing. I personally saw how my auntie had paid her way thru her dialysis without help from NKF,. Yeah I was angry cause they did not help her out, but then I thought things out. I know that they can well afford to pay for pte dialysis, why should they burden the system.jopel said:Nisa, I like your spirit. Are you very emotionally attach to NKF and the good cause they are doing? If yes then you are in a denial stage of this whole episode. If not then are you using reverse psychology to vent your anger.
ullyss said:He who steps on the tiger's tail..
quotation from the free transcript from SPH who would normally charge us readers $.
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Q. I would like to read the third line: "The committee suggested that Mr Durai should be compensated a sum of $20,000 per month. Mr Durai felt he should take a lesser amount as a salary, $12,000 per month ..."
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The NKF committee is the one who determines the pay for their CEO, so shouldnt the NKF committee be held responsible, rather than the CEO.
Afterall, without the approval from the board, how would the CEO be allowed a generous bonus and package for his employment.
My question is who are in the NKF committee and board?
Shouldn't they come under the spotlight?
ullyss said:My question is who are in the NKF committee and board?
Shouldn't they come under the spotlight?
Nisa said:Trade and Charity are different. But I still expect something in return for whatever charity I am doing.
In fact I had this conversation with one of my fren, she did asked me why did I do charity work or donate? I told her honestly I do it just so I can atone for whatever sins I might have in this life and previous lives. I give because I feel guilty that I have a pair of hands, a pair of legs, perfect functions body and a loving family, when I know that there are so many people out there suffering.
Please insult me by suggesting that I am throwing my money. I think by donating to NKF, my money is used well.
Nisa said:I respect the majority, but that doesnt mean I should follow the majority.
I have my own views, and my own rights.
I know that a lot of things are supposed to be this or that, then why not let me have my this, when others have their that?
BTW I dont think democracy is to follow the will of the majority.
U cannot just ask me to be silent, while I stand and see what I felt is wrong happening.
dawgbyte77 said:Aside from atoning to your sins and feeling guilty, you also want to be recognized by the public for your donation and get paid handsomely by your charity work?
Your money is now either in the reserved collecting interest for 40 years while you "know that there are so many people out there suffering". Does this not constitute as throwing money away? And assuming the NKF show is successful again, this 40years will stretch some more. Now tell me again why only 2000 were helped? How many were rejected because they cannot meet a certain criteria (mostly they cannot pay the nominal fee). Wouldn't you agree that these people needed the help more? And wouldn't this seem like they are penalized for being too poor? I think it is okay to be selective due to limited funding but for this case, it seems the reasoning for the rejection is quite flimsy at best and discriminating at worst.
Nisa said:I am quite curious about this part "How many were rejected because they cannot meet a certain criteria (mostly they cannot pay the nominal fee). Wouldn't you agree that these people needed the help more? And wouldn't this seem like they are penalized for being too poor?" Where did you get the idea from? :dunno:
yowch said:I was refering to your post (1297 on page 65) that the you said that "I agree that democracy is here for me to stand on what I believe. I disagree however, "Democracy allows for a lot of nonsense". With democracy, only would I know what others are thinking of. and how I can seek a balance for my existence in this world."
If you respect and adhere to democracy, you WILL accept and follow the decision of the majority. In a democracy, the will of the majority is taken as the 'correct' will. You are referring to freedom of speech to have your own stand, and yet respect the majority. In a democracy, the losers conform, or leave.
Yes it is good that we have our rights. I have no problems with you supporting NKF, I would prefer to support a more efficient, more transparent and more charitable NKF. I believe you can agree to that.
Those are the actual court transcripts in case ur fingers can't even be bothered to click on those linksHarry Potter said:Where can I get transscripts? Is there any govt sites that I can logon to retrieve?
unfortunately this is not merely a cooked up "idea" - you just have not encountered real-life examples of your friends, colleagues, family denied help from nkf that's all...Nisa said:I am quite curious about this part "How many were rejected because they cannot meet a certain criteria (mostly they cannot pay the nominal fee). Wouldn't you agree that these people needed the help more? And wouldn't this seem like they are penalized for being too poor?" Where did you get the idea from? :dunno:
Nisa said:I would prefer to have a more efficient, more transparent and more charitable NKF, but i don't think we can do it.
thank you for acknowledging my pov, but i still would like to know where u got the idea that people are rejected because they are "mostly they cannot pay the nominal fee"?dawgbyte77 said:Wow... you really are clueless... now I understand where your arguments are coming from. I rest my case, respect democracy and respect your POV.![]()
SledgeHammer said:unfortunately this is not merely a cooked up "idea" - you just have not encountered real-life examples of your friends, colleagues, family denied help from nkf that's all...
eikin said::think: care to share why you think we can't do it?
Nisa said:cause no matter how hard a person try, u can't please everyone. I would have my own pt of views and i will say how bad it's run.
Nisa said:thank you for acknowledging my pov, but i still would like to know where u got the idea that people are rejected because they are "mostly they cannot pay the nominal fee"?