There is no one size fits all solution...things that we perceive wrong does not mean we are more right.....we live in different environment and we too have our own problem to fix.....To an unfortunate family, kids are a liability....to a communist society....kids are assets....and will be groomed and educated by the party to fit in a role that will contribute to the country......you can be a peasant or you can be a minister......it's down to your potential and hard work.....the contribution is still the same. :think:
Look at our kid....some are being forced to attend play school, lessons, tuitions, kindergarten at the same toddling age.....just because they don't sweat or stretch...we think that is alright and more humanitarian than the Chinese kids whom attending gym, wu shu temple or Chinese opera house.....we think our kids are happier....I think our kids are luckier....I think our parents are kiasuer....like wise for the Chinese parents...they too have to worry about their kids' future......the different is the options presented are limited :dunno:
We have people rear a chiwawa as a pet and was daily fed with food that can feed a poor Chinese family for a week....in china...that chiwawa will become a good source of protein......we think this is cruel but they will think that's god given and the right thing to do....to survive.:sweatsm:
Pardon me for my powderful england if you can't quite get what I mean on the above....I've never attended a kindergarden and english tuition when I was 6....forgive me too if I am OOP too much as I am too awake to go to bed now...I blame it on pre parenthood stress syndrom:sweatsm: And to sum all up....we always judge others by our standard.....don't forget they too will judge us by their standard....if the world is fair and all of us have equal playing field....than there won be necessary to compete and decide who is stronger, higher and faster :thumbsup: