night86mare
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Can't deny that current trends dictate that it must be so, but it is not necessary that it is so. There are always exceptions to every situation, and I do not believe that it is as bad as you paint, although of course I agree with the fact that the problems are there.and that when these kids leave JC, they will stop to realize, hey, all my life i've been looking at these short term goals, doing the best in them, but i've never considered what i wanted to be, i've never put in effort in learning the things i should have learnt than all these formal education stuff that is not very applicable in reality. and many parents dont realize it as well.
grab any kid off the road, between the age of 13 to 18, ask him what his ambition is, majority will reply you "i dont know!"
quoting my former headmaster, the current director of general education now, the singapore education emphasizes on producing all rounded individuals, --> but in my opinion, 99% come out as squares, only the top 1% or less, become the true jack of all trades but master of none.
When I left JC, I roughly knew what I wanted to do, just not very sure which path to choose, so a few things had to happen before I decided where I would go, and now it has solidified. I would be extremely worried if I knew the ONE path I would want to take after JC, because it would mean that if that ONE path was not available I would be in deep **** and that would reveal quite a fair bit of bad planning, don't you think?
As for the grabbing, oh well, kids will usually tell you "I don't know", mainly because they just want to go home.
Not really sure what you mean by your last statement, seems a little convoluted, but I've seen my fair share of 1-sided people, they didn't exactly die - it's how they handled it, like the senior I had, who chose to go to polytechnic to do computing, he's working overseas at Microsoft now for quite a tidy sum, and I'm happy for him. And at no point in time did he actually make some emo tantrum about having to leave Singapore to succeed in life. He handled it, and that's the kind of spirit we should have, though of course the system should make some changes as well.