actually, these people who got confused with their sexual orientation dont bother me, except some of them (butch usually) who kinda annoy me coz they kinda "act" too much (dunno how to explain lar). I once asked my GF how these butch couples can be intimate and she told me to go ask them myself :think:
Then again, he might not be confused with their sexual orientation. He might very well be as straight as you and me. Maybe he's just into crossdressing?