I REALLY REALLY want to laugh my head off when i read you guys' replies.
anyway, thanks so much for all the answers!.
1stly, let me clarify, it's not whether i'm sizing him up to see if he's eligible to my bf/hubby.
2ndly, he's a classmate of mine, had lunch with him, and he told me about his 'assets', and would like me to advise him if it's sufficient in order to settle down comfortably.
i cannot compare himself with how much i'm earning and how much savings i have.
we're in different fields, different leagues.(please dont flame me, i'm just being honest)
i cant possibly screen through all the questions thrown at me from 4 pages,
but by just having a glance, here are some more information
- he's single, but wanting to pao a gal.
- he's acceptable.not yandao like tay ping hui or pierre png:bsmilie:
- he has a car, a vios.monthly should be...er...$500?not sure.how much does a vios cost btw?$50k?
- he is staying with his parents but wants to rent a place until he gets ringed and go for Hopelessly Designed Buildings.:bsmilie::bsmilie:
- his' monthly is about $5k, that's BEFORE cpf deduction
- photography is not his hobby, but he likes travelling so i guess the bulk of his income goes to travel.
- stocks and shares, erm....i dunno.i didnt ask.
he told me his close friends are all about the same, not much savings, but some of them had finish their housing loans.
if you ask me,
$30k for a guy's savings...is pathetic(i'm asking to be flamed but seriously, you dont want me lying right?)
in liquid assets alone, i believe you need to have at least a 100k, whether it's for emergency, or for pampering yourself.
and lastly, yes, i dont need to find a rich bf/hubby.
cos i earn much more than the typical singaporean guy.
and let me tell you, that's one of the main reasons till to date i'm single.( so is it REALLY good for a gal to earn that much?i dont know.you tell me)
some guys i've met sees my car i drive for clubbing sessions, they straightaway feel i'm materialistic, and very difficult to 'maintain'.most of them feel it's because i have a super rich daddy, or sugar daddy...if you want to put it that way.
i have suitors, but i really do not know if they're out for my $ or for s.:bsmilie:
it's hard to find a nice guy in singapore nowadays(again, no offense).
but i really believe really SINCERE guys are joining the ice age.
any other questions?