NineEleven
New Member
My, I've been away & in about 24hrs, a thread that I started seems to have caused a stir & closed. Some of you can really get carried away & not offered any constructive opinions.
http://www.clubsnap.com/forums/showthread.php?t=504485
Anyway, to set the record straight. I do not know the photographer, it's the 1st time that I have met him & I'm sure it's the same for others as well. I don't know his name or user ID etc. The organiser should have his mobile # & that's probably about it. Public shaming has become quite an attitude these days especially with the help of stomp & people are sometimes too trigger-happy. I'm not too sure how our society has developed from the witch hunt days from the middle ages.
Whatever it is, I don't think the public should hold Melody-love responsible for that day. It's a first for her as well & she has explained her awkward situation. It's part of a learning experience to be better. I personally wouldn't mind to pay her extra to have some peace. We regret we didn't intervened earlier but I must say at least one other experienced photographer :thumbsup: who was present was watching over the situation by helping the gals & organiser too.
For those who jeered behind this screen, shame on you. I'll see what you'll do when you are faced with a similar situation.
My purpose to start that thread is to warn the public, models & organisers that such situations & character will appear again. It may not be the same person in future. You can ban him but he can always raise a new ID. We just have to take caution and deal with it @ a sensible manner. Going to the police is the last resort & not necessary yet @ this point of time IMO, unless someone has a strong believe of getting physical backlash.
My humble opinion is that gals/guys who are out to do freelance, please be sensible to have a friend around especially when you are a freshie. Don't get yourself into unnecessary problems & same for photographers doing 1-1. Otherwise, to organisers & your models, please have a constant reminder to yourself that you have your basic rights to stop a shoot should you feel compromised. Explain your concerns to the others & I'm sure people with reason will understand.
Some of you said that he has done nothing wrong since he paid & is doing a shoot like anyone else & just that he's probably overzealous. Fine, but I personally looked @ where he aimed his lens @ & at least one other guy peeped @ his playback screen & concurred. Now, shooting close-up is photography as well but the issue I have here is when the subjects, in this case are human beings. If they are prepared, paid for & allowed such shoots, fine with me. If you want to do explicit shoots, hire the right model.
BUT what happened that day was the models were obviously extremely uncomfortable & compromised to the extent of harassment IMO. This is NOT FINE with me. Models have feelings too & if they are not in the best mood, we shouldn't force it & you wouldn't get good results too. So, what's the point of carrying on?
Some of you will say, look, it's a lingerie shoot, what do you expect? You are attracting wolves. Well, if that's the case, wolves are everywhere & sleeping next to you. I think the Human body is undeniably attractive & we should view it maturely. We are all born nude & God deliver us as is. The next time when you're changing, please take a few mins to look @ yourself in the mirror. Beyond all the clothes & social standing, we're actually all the same but you don't oggle @ your own body, do you? It's the filthy mind that clouds your judgement. A senior Business Times editor once told me that porn is the #1 $ making media in the world (newsprint is losing $). It(porn) is in everyone of us, it's how you look @ it and not overcome by it.
Now, speaking of the press of which recent news came to light. News come & go, people forget. As long as all parties are willing and nobody complaints, why are we all so uptight? If the society has a myopic mindset, we may not be able to change it but we can at least prove otherwise.
I see that we have a lot of very active forummers here. I remembered that there was a mission some time ago that collected unwanted but working cameras then the people bring them to a 3rd world country, gave them to the underprivileged kids & teach them about capturing images they see. Hopefully, they can grow up with a skill or at least see things differently. Can I suggest that CS do something for the society? (call the press too :angel
I have a few working cameras to donate & I'm sure you guys can also impart free photography lessons. We can start with the orphanages here & kids are difficult subjects too!!!
To the admin., please feel free to close this thread when necessary & should others want to start a flame. You can PM me instead.
http://www.clubsnap.com/forums/showthread.php?t=504485
Anyway, to set the record straight. I do not know the photographer, it's the 1st time that I have met him & I'm sure it's the same for others as well. I don't know his name or user ID etc. The organiser should have his mobile # & that's probably about it. Public shaming has become quite an attitude these days especially with the help of stomp & people are sometimes too trigger-happy. I'm not too sure how our society has developed from the witch hunt days from the middle ages.
Whatever it is, I don't think the public should hold Melody-love responsible for that day. It's a first for her as well & she has explained her awkward situation. It's part of a learning experience to be better. I personally wouldn't mind to pay her extra to have some peace. We regret we didn't intervened earlier but I must say at least one other experienced photographer :thumbsup: who was present was watching over the situation by helping the gals & organiser too.
For those who jeered behind this screen, shame on you. I'll see what you'll do when you are faced with a similar situation.
My purpose to start that thread is to warn the public, models & organisers that such situations & character will appear again. It may not be the same person in future. You can ban him but he can always raise a new ID. We just have to take caution and deal with it @ a sensible manner. Going to the police is the last resort & not necessary yet @ this point of time IMO, unless someone has a strong believe of getting physical backlash.
My humble opinion is that gals/guys who are out to do freelance, please be sensible to have a friend around especially when you are a freshie. Don't get yourself into unnecessary problems & same for photographers doing 1-1. Otherwise, to organisers & your models, please have a constant reminder to yourself that you have your basic rights to stop a shoot should you feel compromised. Explain your concerns to the others & I'm sure people with reason will understand.
Some of you said that he has done nothing wrong since he paid & is doing a shoot like anyone else & just that he's probably overzealous. Fine, but I personally looked @ where he aimed his lens @ & at least one other guy peeped @ his playback screen & concurred. Now, shooting close-up is photography as well but the issue I have here is when the subjects, in this case are human beings. If they are prepared, paid for & allowed such shoots, fine with me. If you want to do explicit shoots, hire the right model.
BUT what happened that day was the models were obviously extremely uncomfortable & compromised to the extent of harassment IMO. This is NOT FINE with me. Models have feelings too & if they are not in the best mood, we shouldn't force it & you wouldn't get good results too. So, what's the point of carrying on?
Some of you will say, look, it's a lingerie shoot, what do you expect? You are attracting wolves. Well, if that's the case, wolves are everywhere & sleeping next to you. I think the Human body is undeniably attractive & we should view it maturely. We are all born nude & God deliver us as is. The next time when you're changing, please take a few mins to look @ yourself in the mirror. Beyond all the clothes & social standing, we're actually all the same but you don't oggle @ your own body, do you? It's the filthy mind that clouds your judgement. A senior Business Times editor once told me that porn is the #1 $ making media in the world (newsprint is losing $). It(porn) is in everyone of us, it's how you look @ it and not overcome by it.
Now, speaking of the press of which recent news came to light. News come & go, people forget. As long as all parties are willing and nobody complaints, why are we all so uptight? If the society has a myopic mindset, we may not be able to change it but we can at least prove otherwise.
I see that we have a lot of very active forummers here. I remembered that there was a mission some time ago that collected unwanted but working cameras then the people bring them to a 3rd world country, gave them to the underprivileged kids & teach them about capturing images they see. Hopefully, they can grow up with a skill or at least see things differently. Can I suggest that CS do something for the society? (call the press too :angel

To the admin., please feel free to close this thread when necessary & should others want to start a flame. You can PM me instead.